- What is a Love Tarot Reading?
- The Three Most Common Love Tarot Spreads: Which is for you?
- Three Card Love Tarot Spread
- If you’re in a Relationship? Try this Love Tarot Spread!
- If you’re single, Try the Ultimate Spread for Singles
- How a Love Tarot Reading Actually Works…
- How to Approach Your Love Reading:
- Things to Remember
What is a Love Tarot Reading?
A Love Tarot Reading is a specially designed reading that gives you insight into what your love life has in store for you.
It tells you where you’re at in your love life and how things will change in the weeks and months to come.
So if you’re wondering what your love life has in store for you getting your Love Tarot Reading is the first step.
It gives you much needed insight into the plan the Universe has in store for you and also helps to explain why you’re facing the problems you’re going through right now.
Because let’s face it, you wouldn’t seek advice from the cards if you didn’t think things could be better.
It’s important to remember that challenges in life are the Universe’s way of teaching you.
And the tarot cards are like a direct link to the Universe so you can figure out how you can learn from your current situation.
That way you’ll be able to grow into a stronger and more balanced person more quickly and easily than without them.
Does it work even if You’re a Sceptic..?
The question is though, are you a sceptic? Sure, it’s difficult to believe in something that’s considered an occult practice, especially in this day and age.
These days people don’t believe in magic, they believe in the Universal scientific laws.
Well, I’m not going to get into the details here, but I do think there is some sort of energy at play behind the scenes when it comes to destiny and the challenges a person faces throughout their life.But that’s my personal opinion.
This will Change your Mind if you Are…
There are stories of sceptics that have gone for Love Tarot Readings and found that it actually works.
Like the one post on Insider by Louis Baragona. He was at a social event, minding his own business and found himself in line at the Tarot Reading table.
The Tarot Reader could tell what he was attracted to in people, that he’d just went through a breakup and what he had to do to find the kind of love that he wanted.
He quoted Carrie Bradshaw, “love. Real love. Ridiculous, inconvenient, consuming, can’t-live-without-each-other love.”
And while he’s still waiting to meet this love, because like the Tarot reader said he has to focus on healing after the breakup first, she did predict some things that already happened.
Louis met someone who wasn’t right for him in a bar he always goes to.
And they had also just gone through a breakup, exactly like the tarot reader said.
And, icing on the cake, it didn’t work out because neither of them were ready for a serious relationship. He was duped.
Exactly like the cards said he would be! So now he’s taking their advice and waiting the full year before he goes somewhere new to meet someone who’s right for him, when he’s ready to get involved in an all consuming type of love.
So..? What does that Mean for Me?
It’s funny how people don’t like hearing the truth and always seem to test the boundaries with Love Tarot Readings.
In a Love Tarot Reading the cards explain different aspects of your love life.
They are there to show you where your current problems with relationships stem from and how to fix those problems so you can get the love you deserve.
And if you’re a sceptic like Louis you might not believe that they have the best advice, but usually that’s just because you don’t want to face the truth.
Everyone deserves to be loved and that is exactly what your Love Tarot Reading will help you realize.
There is no failing with a Love Tarot Reading, only the chance to learn how to get the best out of your relationship.
It doesn’t matter what aspect you’re struggling with, the cards will understand what you’re going through even if you don’t completely understand it yet.
If you’re having trouble in your love life read closely. The cards will guide you to find out how you can change your romantic relationship for the better, even if you think it’s a hoax.
If you’re not in a relationship it doesn’t mean you can’t benefit from a Love Tarot Reading.
The chances are that you’re single for a reason, like Louis, and the cards will show you what the issue is and how to resolve it.
You see a Love Tarot Reading isn’t just about predicting the future of your love life.
It’s about finding out what the underlying issues are that are holding you back from manifesting the Love you deserve.
Louis learned that the hard way when he fell for someone that wasn’t right for him, yet again, because he refused to believe what the cards warned him about.
Some Important Questions Answered
Get Ready for an Epic Journey!
It’s as though, without the Love Tarot Reading, you’re trying to go on an epic cross country trek using the same, impractical shoes you’ve always been wearing and believing that you won’t get stuck at some point.
The Love Tarot Reading will give you a clearer idea of the landscape you’re facing in the future. Will you be climbing big rocks, will you be walking through rivers, will you be walking over sand… It’ll help you to figure out what shoes you need to put on to get through to where you want to be.
The bottom line of a Love Tarot Reading is that there is hope for your romantic relationships. You don’t have to give up on love because your heel broke. The cards will guide you to finding out which shoes you need to put on.
Louis also came to the conclusion that it’s good to get different perspectives on your love life and if nothing else that is what your Love Tarot Reading will do.
Then you’ll be able to approach love with a whole new frame of reference that will give you a chance to change into something more practical so you can get everything you want out of your romantic relationship, regardless of how hopeless you feel right now.
So don’t give up hope! There is an amazing future in store for you, and the cards are there as a guide.
They will show you how you can reach your dreams, all you need to do is take the time to apply what the cards are telling you and get a new pair of boots, you can never have too many boots!
The Three Most Common Love Tarot Spreads:
Which is for you?
There are different types of Tarot Spreads that will give you answers about your love life. If you have a deck of Tarot Cards, why not try these different spreads to see which one works best for you!
To do a Tarot Spread with your own cards shuffle the cards keeping your question in mind. In this case it will have to do with your relationship. But be specific. The more specific you are about your question the better you’ll be able to interpret the message from the Universe. Here are three spreads you can use to determine what your love life has in store for you.
Three Card Love Tarot Spread
This spread will reveal the basic energy you’re putting out into the Universe when it comes to your romantic side. If you’re wondering what you can do to improve your relationship or what the Universe wants you to learn before you embark on a new relationship.
It’s a simple spread and very easy to understand, which makes it a good spread to start off with if you’re new to Tarot.
If you’re in a Relationship? Try this Love Tarot Spread!
If you’re already in a relationship and you’re starting to face some challenges, or there are some old problems that keep cropping up, try this spread for some clarity on what you can do to keep the spark alive or get it back. It will give you a bit more clarity than the three card reading so you’ll know exactly how to approach the problem.
Keep your unresolved issue in mind while you shuffle the cards. Focus on how it makes you feel and how you would like to feel once it’s resolved. Then draw five cards and lay them out in front of you one by one.
If you’re single, Try the Ultimate Spread for Singles
Are you wondering who your next partner will be? What they do for a living… How they look… What their personality is like… This in depth Tarot spread will give you all the answers you’re looking for!
For this spread you’re going to have to draw twelve cards. Arrange the first five cards together. Place the sixth, seventh, eighth and ninth cards together. Pair cards ten and eleven and keep the twelfth card separate.
The first group of cards will reveal some clear facts about the person:
These are three easy spreads that will help you figure out where your love life is heading, have fun with them!
How a Love Tarot Reading Actually Works…
In a Love Tarot reading there will be at least three cards. In a three card reading the message you get will be quite broad, so you’ll have to use your intuition to help you apply it to specific things in your life.
With more in depth readings you’ll get exact specifics and it’ll be easier to know exactly what the Universe is trying to tell you. Let’s use the shoes as an example. In a three card reading the universe will tell you, those wedges are busy hurting your feet, get some flats and you’ll save your feet.
In an in depth reading the Universe will be able to tell you “Those black wedges you wear to work every day are crushing the second toe on your left foot and you’re going to be doing a surprise team building exercise next week so swop them out for the red pumps in the back of your closet otherwise you might sprain your ankle”. Does that make sense?
Notice how even the in depth reading isn’t extremely specific. “Next week” and “might sprain your ankle” imply that things could change between now and then and that time is very relative in the Spiritual realm. So don’t expect things to happen exactly as you think they will.
What happens will also depend on how you take the advice of the cards. For instance Louis didn’t take the warning that he’ll be duped to heart. He went and fell for the same type of person that he always has despite the warning. So you always have a choice when it comes to your Love Tarot Reading.
The cards are more of a guide than a “this is your future regardless of what you do” type of arrangement.
The key to making a Love Tarot Reading, whether it’s a short or in depth reading, work for you is to read between the lines. Those red pumps might just catch the eye of the love of your life and inspire them to come over and talk to you.
So think about the unseen events that are conspiring to get you where you want to go as much as the practical side of what the cards are telling you.
If you’re in touch with your divinatory side you’ll probably get sparks of Divine inspiration. And the more you practice some calming techniques and the spreads above the more likely it is that you’ll be able to interpret the cards in a way that makes sense to you.
What the Cards Mean
I’m going to explain what the different cards in a short three card reading mean so you’ll be able to get an idea of how this whole Love Tarot Reading thing works and then you’ll be able to apply it to your own personal reading. For the sake of the examples imagine I just broke up with a boyfriend that was very hurtful and now I’m looking for a relationship that is more supportive and has mutual respect as a basis.
These are three easy spreads that will help you figure out where your love life is heading, have fun with them!
How to Approach Your Love Reading:
Keep an Open Mind
You may think you know everything you need to know about your romantic relationship, but often this isn’t the case. You’re facing challenges in your ability to manifest the love you feel you deserve and there is a reason for this.
If you want to get the most out of your Love Tarot Reading you need to keep an open mind. You can’t let your idea of how things ought to be get in the way of the message the Universe is trying to give you.
Or like in Louis case let your scepticism lead you to wearing the same old shoes that got you into trouble the first time, laugh at the cards and then still expect to get a happy ending… As his experience shows, that just doesn’t work.
The cards are going to give you a new perspective on how to face your struggles and resolve your issues. Let them guide you to a new point of view, a new pair of boots if you will.
If you cling to your old way of thinking, or that to-die-for pair of heels, and don’t take the message from the cards to heart you won’t get the full benefit of your Love Tarot Reading.
You’ll keep facing the same challenges in your romantic relationship until you can change the way you approach the problem. So let the cards guide you.
The Universe wants what’s best for you and with the help of your personal Love Tarot Reading you’ll be able to find out exactly what you can do, and which shoes to wear, to climb to the top and make your romantic dreams come true.
Don’t let Past Heartache get in your Way
We’ve all been through heartache in the past. Trust me, I know how painful it can be. The scars last a long time and there are some wounds that even time can’t heal. Love has a great capacity to hurt us.
But in order for you to get the most out of your Love Tarot Reading you can’t let past hurts get in your way. It’s like your favorite shoes that can’t last forever, at some point you need to put on a new pair.
I know it’s difficult, and this goes hand in hand with keeping and open mind, but you need to realize that the pain from your past is keeping you from seeing the opportunities the Universe is presenting you with to manifest the relationship of your dreams. Who knows, you might even like the new pair of shoes more than the old pair and this pair will be able to get you places you never dreamed of going.
If someone hurt you in a past relationship it’s obvious that you’re going to be scared when a similar situation arises. But that fear is making you act in a way that will only bring more heartache into your life.
It’s like jumping from one rock to another in slippery shoes. The more scared you are of falling the greater the chances that you will.
I’m not trying to say that you should forget what your past heartache has taught you, but, once you’ve put on shoes with more grip, try to let go of the fear you have that it will happen again. It’s time to start trusting in the Universe and its desire to give you love and happiness again.
After all, it’s what you deserve. So don’t let the pain from your past keep you from the amazing future the Universe has planned for you.
Keep your Heart’s Desires in Mind
When you’re approaching your Love Tarot Reading you need to keep your heart’s desires in mind. Your heart’s desires are the things that you would want in a fulfilling romantic relationship.
Do you want someone who hangs on your every word like Louis? Or would you rather want someone who lives their own life? Are you looking for someone to spend as much time with as possible? Or do you need someone who’ll be happy to leave you to do your own thing? These are just a couple of things you need to consider.
On a deeper level you heart’s desires could be something like you want someone who’s shared a similar, life altering experience that you went through. So you can connect on a deeper level.
In fact that’s probably what drew Louis to the relationship that he got duped in. I’m not saying you’ll get duped in your shared experience. But imagine you and your partner are wearing the same shoes. You’ll be able to go anywhere together, without one of you being left behind.
On the other hand your heart’s desires might revolve around a current relationship. For instance you may want your current partner to be more honest and intimate with you and you’re wondering how you can lure them out of the shell they’ve retreated into.
So you and your partner can connect on a deeper more heartfelt level. This could mean kicking your shoes off and just relaxing for a bit, but you’re so busy climbing obstacles that you feel like you’re going to tumble backwards if you take a break. It doesn’t have to be that way…
Whatever your heart’s desires are, they will have a big influence on your Love Tarot Reading. You need to figure out what it is that you want from your Love Tarot Reading and keep that in mind throughout the reading. Louis wanted an in your face kind of love, what is it that you want?
So I’ve given you just about as much as I can without doing a Love Tarot Reading for you. But here are a couple of final pointers for you to use. It’s a rehash of what we’ve already discussed, but with a few extra bits you may have missed.
Things to Remember
A last important word. A Love Tarot Reading isn’t a crystal ball. It doesn’t predict your future in the sense that “this will happen this way no matter what”. You have a choice. You can change your destiny!
The cards are just a guide of the most likely outcome. If you really put your mind to it you can prove them completely wrong. For instance, let’s take my example reading from the What the Cards Mean section.
Say I just met someone before I did the reading. Now my original conclusion was that I should wait before going into a new relationship. But now I’ve already met someone I really really like and I don’t want to pass up the chance of having a relationship with this person. So what do I do?
The third card in the reading is about mistrust and evil. Those are things I definitely want to avoid. The second card is about rebuilding my foundations and changing for the better.
There I can see what my best course of action is. I go to this new person and tell them something along the lines of “listen here, I just got out of a terrible relationship, it made me feel like I was being stabbed in the heart.
I’m scared that happens again. But I do want to try and make this work. I want this to be different. So I’m here telling you this because I want to have a relationship that’s built on trust. I’m just being honest about my past. I hope you can respect that.” And then see how they respond.
You see what I did there? I took the whole reading and told this new person what I want, where I’m at and where I’m coming from. That way I’m already laying a solid, honest foundation.
I’m taking back my power by taking what the cards said and turning it into something that I want. Because, as with all things in life, Love Tarot Readings are what you make of them. They are not set in stone and you have the power to take the course of your love life into your own hands.
The Love Tarot Reading is there to guide you in the right direction, it’s up to you to take the wheel.